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Old 04-25-12, 02:12 PM   #1
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I just broke up with my boyfriend. He has been acting very disrespectful towards me lately. He has been having a rude attitude. He has hung up on me twice. Yesterday I got an inking that I wasn't getting treated with respect because I sleep around, so I asked him if it would be more respectable to get paid for it. He said it doesn't matter either way. I was thrilled because I don't like the idea of being sexually repressed, it makes me feel oppressed as a woman, but I don't want to have to break the law to enjoy sex which I love. Well today he changed his mind. He said I'm having sex with all these guys and I have nothing to show for it. He said I don't know what I want, one minute I want to be a ho and the next minute I'm giving it up for free. I told him my ideal life is like Samantha from Sex and the City, choosing her sexual partners, making her own money, going to sex clubs, etc. He said if that's the life I want then he wants nothing to do with me. I asked him what he wants me to do instead, I was willing to compromise. Should I get paid for it? Does he want to try monogamy? He went back to saying I don't know what I want and that I get on his last nerves.

I don't know what it is about me that invites disrespect from people. I want love like everyone else, but I have no real love in my life. I have tried to be different types of people to earn respect and love from humanity. I was a 22 year old virgin, yet I got disrespect. I was in a monogamous relationship where the same thing happened, he started finding me annoying and I got dropped. This is in spite the fact that I moved him out of a small town to a major city, paid $300 to get him into a methadone clinic, had him living at my mom's house even though she didn't want a man living with her, let him use the car even though he was a reckless driver, etc. He was a total ingrate.

I don't know why people feel it's ok to disrespect me. I'm smart, I'm sweet, I'm respectful, I'm open-minded, I dress well, put on makeup, I'm gifted. I like myself but nobody likes me. So I hate everyone.

I asked a sexual partner and he confirmed that it's more respectable to get paid. So I feel like that's what I should do, even though I don't want to get arrested. I want to use people like they have used me. I want to see myself as a goddess, as royalty and everyone else is my loyal subject. I want to make tons of money and live alone. So I want to do the freelance writing, the stripping, and the prostitution.

What do you think?
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I would have been your client.
But stay safe. There are bunch of assholes in that business and drugs and drinks and shit. Be sure to avoid those things.
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In my opinion one's body is their own business. Just be careful! You seem to know what you're doing.
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Thanks guys. I just feel like I want to be this headstrong, streetwise, shrewd b*tch who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, doesn't take crap from anyone, uses people like people use her, doesn't give a damn about anyone, has lots of hot sex, looks perfect, and makes megabucks. I will do whatever it takes to get there. No more being a lazy loser.
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Btw don't do it too much cause it may be bad for your health. Be sure to use condoms. I never had love myself haha. It sucks but I just do other things.
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Hey hey SensualGirl, I responded to your thread about becoming a stripper and this is a very similar thing.

I'm really sorry, but I think you're glamorising prostitution. It's not actually about being headstrong, streetwise or shrewd. It's actually about fucking guys for money.

It's not going to feed your ego except in an unhealthy way.

I'm sorry for saying that so bluntly, but it's the truth in my experience and I mean it with all respect.
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Hey hey SensualGirl, I responded to your thread about becoming a stripper and this is a very similar thing.

I'm really sorry, but I think you're glamorising prostitution. It's not actually about being headstrong, streetwise or shrewd. It's actually about fucking guys for money.

It's not going to feed your ego except in an unhealthy way.

I'm sorry for saying that so bluntly, but it's the truth in my experience and I mean it with all respect.
I trust your opinion since you used to be in the game. So you're saying prostitution is a bad idea? Do you think I should just sleep around for free? It makes me happy but makes me fear I won't get the respect I crave. Do you think I should continue doing that instead?

And do you think I should strip instead?
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The thing about prostition that you seem to not realize is that it will no longer be you having sex, You'll be doing whatever your customers want of you. You stop having rights with them because you are providing a service.

They will disrespect you because they feel as though they have bought you and as well as that you don't get to pick your customers. They pick you so it won't just be guys you find attractive.
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The thing about prostition that you seem to not realize is that it will no longer be you having sex, You'll be doing whatever your customers want of you. You stop having rights with them because you are providing a service.

They will disrespect you because they feel as though they have bought you and as well as that you don't get to pick your customers. They pick you so it won't just be guys you find attractive.
Thanks for responding! This is exactly what I've been afraid of. You hit the nose on the head. This is exactly what happened before. I felt like I had to have sex with guys I would ordinarily not have because they offered me money (basically bribery). Plus it wasn't about my pleasure, I was just trying to get it over with and get out of there so I wouldn't get caught, raped, beaten, robbed, kidnapped, forced to do things I didn't want to do, etc.

I know what will make me happy but I care so much about what people think. I think about Camille Paglia: she's a feminist philosopher who thinks promiscuous women are fools and that prostitutes are goddesses because they get paid for it. I give her an immense amount of power. I hear her voice shouting "they're getting PAID", I see her mean nasty face, it's very distressing.

What will make me happy is to freelance and strip, possibly go back to school to become a therapist, and sleep around, going to swinger parties, nudist events, strip clubs for fun, etc. In an ideal world where the double standard didn't exist and women weren't property, I could do that without worrying about people's opinions. What do you think?
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Thanks guys. I just feel like I want to be this headstrong, streetwise, shrewd b*tch who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, doesn't take crap from anyone, uses people like people use her, doesn't give a damn about anyone, has lots of hot sex, looks perfect, and makes megabucks. I will do whatever it takes to get there. No more being a lazy loser.
Hi. Um... I see that you're getting a lot of supportive responses, but I have to say that I worry about you. If you crave respect, lonelyguy87 is right - this isn't the way to go about it. At all. And I worry about the quote above - do you really want to use people and not give a damn about anyone? Really?

You also just mentioned getting caught, raped, beaten... forced to do things you don't want to do... and all of these things can happen with the professions you seek. You would be providing a service for a paying customer - it wouldn't be what you want, but what they want. And God only knows what they want. I think you would also be viewed more like property, and not respected at all.

And I also agree with andrewmcspandrew completely.

It's good that you posted this so you can get some opinions and really think about them before you decide. Please be very careful.

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