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Old 10-12-08, 07:07 AM   #1
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Every time I try something new to move forward with my pain something else happens to stop me. Every time I get organised in my head, and decide to do stuff.. it hurts more or I have a bad night.

I know it isn't really, but sometimes it feels like a big conspiracy to make things crappy for me.

Sometimes I just wonder what the hell I can do? What can I do to make all this better? What can I do to make it hurt less, or to cope with it better?

And that's it.. there's no answer. No one has any answers.
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Old 10-12-08, 11:28 AM   #2
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((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))

im sorry everything always seems to go wrong. i wish i had answers but i dont- sorry
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Old 10-12-08, 11:57 AM   #3
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Every time I try something new to move forward with my pain something else happens to stop me. Every time I get organised in my head, and decide to do stuff.. it hurts more or I have a bad night.

I know it isn't really, but sometimes it feels like a big conspiracy to make things crappy for me.

Sometimes I just wonder what the hell I can do? What can I do to make all this better? What can I do to make it hurt less, or to cope with it better?

And that's it.. there's no answer. No one has any answers.
I feel your pain and I can definitely relate. Sometimes you can't control the things that are happening to you. It feels like the world is against you, and the lack of control is sometimes what hurts the most. I guess all anyone can really do is learn how to deal with the stress in a healthy way. I don't really have any answers for you, but I thought I would at least say that I know how you feel...

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Old 10-12-08, 12:33 PM   #4
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Thank you both for your posts.

You're right darkvoid. Its the lack of control that hurts the most.

I wish I could just do something that would make the situation better. But all I can do is try to keep my head above water.

Maybe everything feels worse because I've had a poorly couple of days. Maybe it'll look better tomorrow.
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Old 10-12-08, 03:03 PM   #5
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That's a great attitude. Looking forward to a better tomorrow brings hope. Hope is something we all need in our lives. Hope is the only thing that keeps our heads above water when the world is dragging us into the depths of darkness.
Keep fighting!

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Old 10-12-08, 05:49 PM   #6
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i felt the same way this morning, Pwincess. ..
best i can figure is i've been sleeping badly this past week
i'm overtired & cranky

sorry u feel bad...
i hope tomorrow is better for you. ..
still hoping your health improves
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Old 10-12-08, 10:39 PM   #7
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I know exactly how you feel Emily. Everytime my life seems to be moving forward, things just pile on that bring me back down. I haven't had a truly good day in over three years. The only thing I can tell you is to just keep moving forward. Hope is a big part of what gets me through the day. A smile from a stranger, a random song that makes things better, all the little things that get me through. All I can say is try to find the beauty in the little things, and hopefully things will turn out for the best.
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Old 10-13-08, 06:51 AM   #8
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I don't feel better today :(.

I feel the same. Just the same. Except I have a new injury.. I was walking home from the shop yesterday and my tummy was hurting so bad, I felt like if I sat down I'd never get up again. And it was hurting so bad I didn't even notice my shoes rubbing, and all the skin is gone off the back of one of my heels.. like an inch square has come off. I have no idea how I didn't notice it happening :(.

Anyway, the positive thought for today is "If I can tell its got worse again recently, that means the same has happened before and got a bit better.. so it has to get a bit better at some point".
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Old 10-13-08, 07:40 AM   #9
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Hey Pwincess. .. . ..



So. . .Ive been reading .. .your stuff. . . :BIGtongue:


You seem a good strong willed person. . .Humm. . ..I think your gettting too much stres on your mind. . .

do you normally hang out with friends?have any activity that suposedly would relax you?
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Old 10-13-08, 09:24 AM   #10
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'my stuff' lol, I like that.

I am stressed. And anxiety.. I did anxiety a little bit before and I keep having moments of it now. So far I'm talking myself down from it pretty well.

The problem is all the stressful stuff and all the anxious stuff is really quite real.. not stuff I've built up in my head. Its all related to being ill. Like, how am I going to achieve all the stuff I want to achieve if I can't even go to all of my lectures - a whole 9 hours a week - I can't see a way at the moment to get round the pain.

And then the idea of maybe giving up a few dreams: no. Can't even consider that. The very idea makes me cry.

And friends.. well.. I'm kind of isolated down here. My friends and family are 200 miles away. And though I'm in my second year of uni, I don't have many friends.. I was poorly last year too and didn't get to meet many people or do all the going out and drinking.

I have noticed I'm not reading any more. I usually read chick lit all the time lol.. and I can't get interested in anything enough to pick it up. Maybe I should try harder.
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