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Old 01-19-13, 07:23 AM   #1
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I cannot get time back.

I cannot get younger years back.

I cannot go back to when it was a certain way..............

I missed the time and oppurtunity.

I accept this - and now - I do not want to face the future.

I would like to die.-------I cannot be bothered facing up to the future now.

I am not going to commit sucide.

But I would like to die.................because I cannot change the past or go back and live it again.

So - what are my prospects of dieing ?
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Old 01-19-13, 08:02 AM   #2
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I know all to well how it feels to want to die, but
know that what you missed out on in the past, you'll get it back in the future.
You'll get another chance, so hold on to that and hold on to your life
so that the bright future may shine upon your reality one day.
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Old 01-19-13, 09:24 AM   #3
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SIZING - I can relate to things within your posting. Hope you don't mind me posting my reply.

No, we are unable to get back time, but what we can do, is make the best of the time we have now and make something out of it.

We are unable to "retrieve" our youth back. What we're able to do is take care of our bodies and ourselves. Eating healthy, exercising, keeping our minds busy with productive and motivating things that make us feel better and stay younger.

We can attempt to make our lives, now, a certain way we'd like. No, it doesn't always go the way(s) we'd like it to, but making the best of it is all one can/is able to do.

There's always another time, chance, or opportunity. Maybe not as soon as we'd like it to be, but it'll come; again.

It's difficult (even I can admit) to accept certain things. Try to start seeing and thinking of a better future. Remember, one person can make a difference. Start thinking of how to change it for the better. Write things down, like goals you want to achieve. Then, start working on them; daily.

It's wonderful that you're not going to do that.Just know that we are here for support, advice, and we deeply care.
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Old 01-19-13, 10:27 AM   #4
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Hi Sizing. We are all in the exact same boat as you . Not one person on the planet can ever get time back or change the past. And the future can be daunting if we dwell on that as well. So I think the best possibility for all of us is to just live for today. I know that's a cliche.. sorry. But today is here now, and we can choose how to live it right now. You mentionted that you missed time and opportunity. Today is another time, and another opportunity, for you and for all of us. Every 'today' is. One at a time.

The past cannot be changed, but you have chances to create new memories that can give you better things to remember and think about
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I agree with the other posters, Sizing

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Old 01-19-13, 05:16 PM   #6
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Hi Sizing. We are all in the exact same boat as you . Not one person on the planet can ever get time back or change the past. And the future can be daunting if we dwell on that as well. So I think the best possibility for all of us is to just live for today. I know that's a cliche.. sorry. But today is here now, and we can choose how to live it right now. You mentionted that you missed time and opportunity. Today is another time, and another opportunity, for you and for all of us. Every 'today' is. One at a time.

The past cannot be changed, but you have chances to create new memories that can give you better things to remember and think about
Its hard to take when something so small and petty can fester and grow and ruin your entire life.

Its all that time passed stuck - that I cannot get back.
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