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Old 09-02-10, 06:15 PM   #1
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I hate writing this all out again, you won't believe how many times I've had to tell this story and each time I tell it it makes me sick. Can I swear on this? I find it hard to get my point across without being able to swear. I read the rules and it didn't say anything about swearing so fuck it.

Nearly a year ago (yes, it's been that long and im still not over it) my dad cheated on my mum with like 3 foregin women? He decided to tell me first in the middle of tescos by asking me if I wanted to meet her. He was like 'hey Amy I'm dating this girl in Germany!' I was like you're joking right? After a while he stayed silent and then was like yeah sure..

I ignored it for a while, not telling my mum. Then we moved and I found conversations between him and this slut on his skype. I was heartbroken. Me and my dad had a REALLY close relationship! He was my best friend! He was talking about running away with this slut and having 'beautiful children' together. He talked about me and my brother and my little sister Gracie. He made me sick.

I argued with this woman on skype, she went on about her and my dads sex life and how he loves her more, and that hes hers now. She called me all kinds of names and talked about how ugly my piercings are, she's never even met me.

I was crushed and my dads all 'upset' about how I don't EVER talk to him, he had a chance to dump this girl but he chose her over me. Feels like he doesn't deserve to talk to me.

There's much more but it's upsetting me just thinking about it and I have counselling soon so I'll just have to repeat all this shit all over again.

I doubt anyone will read this because it's long and boring but if theres anyone out there like me, please talk to me. I'm sick of no one understanding and people telling me to shut up and get over it.

It's not that easy and I'm lonely.
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I like House, The Mentalist, Lie to me, How I met your mother, Sex and the city, Casualty, Holby City and American Dad.

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Old 09-02-10, 06:49 PM   #2
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For what its worth, I have severe mother issues and dislike my dad a little. I'm obsessed with adultism and child abuse, I have very little knowledge of current events, and I love 90's stuff.
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Old 09-02-10, 06:56 PM   #3
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You want to talk about it? :) Thanks for replying I was afraid I was going to be ignored as usual :/
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On this site to try and find a friend whos going through similar things that I'm going through, so we can talk about anything we want to eachother without thinking we're boring eachother.

I like House, The Mentalist, Lie to me, How I met your mother, Sex and the city, Casualty, Holby City and American Dad.

I have dad issues. Anyone else?


And I want to be a nurse one day.
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Old 09-02-10, 07:18 PM   #4
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Hey I'm sorry to hear you're dad made the wrong choice. I can't really relate as such, but my dad turned his back on me before I was even born. Wants to come back into my life when I'm 20?

Anyways back to your problem. If your dad made that choice, how can he expect you to forgive that? He hurt you and your mam. Plus telling you beforehand about her. Pfft piercings are well cool, what she has done is ugly. I don't blame you one bit for not talking to either of them. He made the choice, now he has to pay the consequences.

Things like this are never an easy thing to take in, and there isn't really much I can say that will make it all better. But I can tell you things will get better, and in time they will. Just make sure you and your mam support each other. Stay strong && take care

If ever you need someone to talk to about your problems, I'm usually always about =)

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Sure. I sent a PM.
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Hey I'm sorry to hear you're dad made the wrong choice. I can't really relate as such, but my dad turned his back on me before I was even born. Wants to come back into my life when I'm 20?

Anyways back to your problem. If your dad made that choice, how can he expect you to forgive that? He hurt you and your mam. Plus telling you beforehand about her. Pfft piercings are well cool, what she has done is ugly. I don't blame you one bit for not talking to either of them. He made the choice, now he has to pay the consequences.

Things like this are never an easy thing to take in, and there isn't really much I can say that will make it all better. But I can tell you things will get better, and in time they will. Just make sure you and your mam support each other. Stay strong && take care

If ever you need someone to talk to about your problems, I'm usually always about =)

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Thank you so much! Someone says it's okay not to talk to him! I've had so many doctors and counsellers and teachers and family members and friends tell me to just talk to him to get better. Like they're looking for a quick fix to get rid of me. I'm sorry about your dad, I'm starting to think all dads are bad. My dad buys me presents which are really not my style at all (e.g. model cars, 3 sizes large tshirts, ugly black cheap jewelry) he knows nothing about me.

Your message really has cheered me up :) First time I've genuinely smiled in a long time!

And yes piercings are cool :D They make me feel interesting, they're also a good way to make friends, people walk up to you and ask you if they hurt.

Thanks :) If you need to talk too then just mail me :D

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On this site to try and find a friend whos going through similar things that I'm going through, so we can talk about anything we want to eachother without thinking we're boring eachother.

I like House, The Mentalist, Lie to me, How I met your mother, Sex and the city, Casualty, Holby City and American Dad.

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I have to send like another 2 message untill I can mail back if you're wondering why I haven't sent anything back yet xx
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I like House, The Mentalist, Lie to me, How I met your mother, Sex and the city, Casualty, Holby City and American Dad.

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The sad thing is the only true thing that cheers me up is new episodes of True Blood, Music (sometimes) and alcohol (but I rarely drink so I don't make a habit of it).
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On this site to try and find a friend whos going through similar things that I'm going through, so we can talk about anything we want to eachother without thinking we're boring eachother.

I like House, The Mentalist, Lie to me, How I met your mother, Sex and the city, Casualty, Holby City and American Dad.

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hi amy. i'm sorry to hear your story, but i hope we can help here.
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Thank you so much! Someone says it's okay not to talk to him! I've had so many doctors and counsellers and teachers and family members and friends tell me to just talk to him to get better. Like they're looking for a quick fix to get rid of me. I'm sorry about your dad, I'm starting to think all dads are bad. My dad buys me presents which are really not my style at all (e.g. model cars, 3 sizes large tshirts, ugly black cheap jewelry) he knows nothing about me.

Your message really has cheered me up :) First time I've genuinely smiled in a long time!

And yes piercings are cool :D They make me feel interesting, they're also a good way to make friends, people walk up to you and ask you if they hurt.

Thanks :) If you need to talk too then just mail me :D

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Hehe yey, I feel like I've won an award =) lol I think it all depends on how you feel, nobody can tell you "do this, do that" if he hurt you. Especially under the circumstances of the situation. Yeah well most dads, I mean gawd help any children I may have!! lol But yeah he should have even a rough idea of your style seeing how you dress and stuff.

Awwh I'm glad I've cheered someone up, just keep on smiling =)

Most of my family has piercings, I love them, but can't get them. Not a big fan of needles, but I'm more into tattoo's. Something that doesn't make me faint hehe =) haha awesome, it's always a ice breaker in a convo having piercings then??

Thank youuu =)

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The sad thing is the only true thing that cheers me up is new episodes of True Blood, Music (sometimes) and alcohol (but I rarely drink so I don't make a habit of it).
I find music cures most of my sadness, not sure I could live without music at all. Wow you remind me a little bit of one of my friends, she's obsessed with True Blood, and has quite a few piercings hehe.

Yeahh alcohol is good in small doses, so it's all good =)
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