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Old 12-11-09, 08:24 PM   #1
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Since the end of last yr I have noticed that I dont really care about anything anymore.

I've been back living at home with my parents since Nov 08, & gradually I've gotten lazier & more tired & done less as this yr has gone on.

I start to do things around the house & dont finish many. I only work part time (early mornings) but as soon as I am home I'm tired & go back to bed for a few hrs. I've let my health slide & have put on a few pounds although I dont think that my slipped disc has helped either. I really dont feel like celebrating Xmas or putting up the tree & decorations this yr, whereas last yr I was in a hell of a stressed & upset state but still wanted to put up the Xmas tree & decorations.
And finally, I think I quit a relationship I was having with a lady too easily when I should have fought a little harder, tried a little longer & put my foot down regarding what I wanted from her. I think it also had something to do with a fear that she would leave me eventually as she's from Poland & so it seemed like the best option was for me to finish it.

How do I pull myself out of this careless mindset before I make my life even worse & before its too late?
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Old 12-11-09, 08:35 PM   #2
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I wish I knew the solution to that.
I'm a high school student and an athlete.
I do not go to the gym anymore, because I am constantly tired and have honestly just lost all interest in all things. I pretend to like things. I had all A's at the beginning of the year, and now I am failing most of my classes because I do not go to school very often. I sit in my room and do absolutely nothing. I've thought about suicide, because I don't see the point in doing something that I don't enjoy. i'm not enjoying very much recently. I feel like im rotting.
My parents are noticing and are signing e up for counseling, which I do not think will help. But maybe I can get prescribed something that will help. If you find any solution, please tell me. i will do the same for you.
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Old 12-11-09, 09:53 PM   #3
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Hi & thanks sbrighampr.
I used to have a very large compulsion with a certain extreme sports pursuit but since a lot of problems arose last yr & I had a problem with my back I seem to have lost my passion for it along with everything else in my life.
Maybe I'm too old.
I'm 33 but never had any problems with my fitness apart from a few injuries, but what with my back & depression its all gone.
Also no work around here & having to move back in with my parents hasnt helped.

If I find a solution I'll pass my findings on to you.
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b0ris, I would rather trust what you said in the previous thread, than self blaming. Trying harder when the other is just not responsive, even a bit harming is kind of losing self respect. Where would that lead, anyway ?
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