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Old 12-19-15, 10:20 PM   #1
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Was bullied in school, when I worked and recently by a douche who lives with me who thinks I'm a mosher amongst other things I'm not a mosher I am me there is only one me and I don't like to be labeled. Prefer not to have been bullied throughout my life maybe I wouldn't have the various mental health problems I have. One thing I can think of why I got bullied is that I'm on the autistic spectrum so people see me as different or weird so they pick up on that. Anyone relate to this or has got ASD?
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Yes I too have been bullied my whole life, in school, at work, within the family, online, etc. It sucks. I have a huge complex about not being able to get angry and stand up for myself. I get bullied for being seemingly weird too, like how I'm bisexual or how I try to think outside the box a lot. But I also get bullied for being such a pushover. The world just has too many controlling and angry people. Sometimes I'm afraid of them. I wish there was a great solution. It's the reason for my disorders too.
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Yes I too have been bullied my whole life, in school, at work, within the family, online, etc. It sucks. I have a huge complex about not being able to get angry and stand up for myself. I get bullied for being seemingly weird too, like how I'm bisexual or how I try to think outside the box a lot. But I also get bullied for being such a pushover. The world just has too many controlling and angry people. Sometimes I'm afraid of them. I wish there was a great solution. It's the reason for my disorders too.


I can relate to what your saying although not entirely because I'm not bisexual. Yeah wish there was a solution the worst type of bully in my experience is the manipulative kind which I have encountered the most I think. I saw a study that says 1 in 5 people who were bullied are more likely to develop a mental health disorder I think we are within the 1 in 5.
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Was bullied in school, when I worked and recently by a douche who lives with me who thinks I'm a mosher amongst other things I'm not a mosher I am me there is only one me and I don't like to be labeled. Prefer not to have been bullied throughout my life maybe I wouldn't have the various mental health problems I have. One thing I can think of why I got bullied is that I'm on the autistic spectrum so people see me as different or weird so they pick up on that. Anyone relate to this or has got ASD?
I can relate to the autistic thing. I've been told many times by my father that I have an autistic problem. This has made me feel alone, or like I don't fit in with most people. It sucks to feel that way. I have social characteristics that tend to make me more introverted. Even though I haven't been bullied throughout my childhood, I do remember occasional instances of being harassed.

Being on the autistic spectrum has made me feel like an outcast. It seems like most people never struggle with this issue. I think people have seen me as different too. I can definitely relate.
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Yes I too have been bullied my whole life, in school, at work, within the family, online, etc. It sucks. I have a huge complex about not being able to get angry and stand up for myself. I get bullied for being seemingly weird too, like how I'm bisexual or how I try to think outside the box a lot. But I also get bullied for being such a pushover. The world just has too many controlling and angry people. Sometimes I'm afraid of them. I wish there was a great solution. It's the reason for my disorders too.
I haven't been bullied my whole life, but I do remember getting harassed sometimes. I get upset at myself for all the times that I didn't stand up for myself. I too consider myself to be bisexual, or confused. I guess I'm not like most people.
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Every school I went to I was bullied and most of my jobs I've been bullied in as well, so I can relate to this.
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I'm sorry, I've been there before. But the most honest thing I can tell you from my experience is that you should never stop fighting for your life. never lie over and die. You need to get back up because depression and sadness is a doorway to endless grief.
But fight smart most importantly.

If the people at your job suck then quit. Find a new one.
If the people around you are selfish then leave them.

Its either you tolerate them or you leave them.
Never feel satisfied with how people mistreat you because you think "oh it could be worse"
If it isn't fair identify it as unfair.

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