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Old 12-01-2009, 11:09 PM   #1
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i need to get out of my house.
my mom emotionally abuses me.
and its making my depression worse.
i'm really not okay in this house.

what do i do?
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Old 12-02-2009, 01:37 AM   #2
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When mom emotionally hurts you, don't mind her. Just try to understand her. maybe she is having problems that she can't solve. Just go out of the house or stay in your room. Call a friend and try to let go of any hurt that you feel. But never hurt yourself or never think of doing something that will harm you. ok?
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Old 12-02-2009, 07:03 AM   #3
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yea I would say do that. Try to talk to her about how you feel and tell her not to do certain things if she loves you she'll understand.
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go for a walk, do something you do to distract yourself and get happy, when both of you are calm talk about how u feel, the problems, but dont push anything too far because tht could make everything worse.
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Old 03-19-2010, 02:40 PM   #5
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you can always try to get out of the house, or if you are old enough to just wait a couple months and turn 18 (considering you are younger than that) you will be able to just leave without any problems... just the money and getting out of the house that's a problem, but in the mean time you can try after school things that will keep you there later so then you don't have to come home and endure the BS associated with being there...
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Old 03-21-2010, 06:55 PM   #6
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like people have said, alternate friend's and family are good to stay with if being at home is too much for you. when i was younger i would just get out of the house, go for walks and stay out until things blew over. find someone you can trust and spend time with them for now, at least during any episodes that might occur. if that's not possible, try and avoid her when she gets too mean and see if you cant talk things out with her afterward.

have you talked to her about how she treats you? does it help at all? how about seeing a family therapist of some type, is that realistic or unrealistic? letting something like this stay in your life without any approach to it, whether hoping it just goes away or running away from it is not a good idea imo. try and see if there is some way you two can get along, or if not that at least tolerate each other without hurting each other.

hang in there, parents can be hurtful without even realizing it, and some can just be cruel. whatever she may say to you or do to bring you down, try to focus on the good things in life, about yourself and what you have.
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Old 05-01-2010, 07:14 PM   #7
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is there a counselor/ social worker at school or at a health center you can talk to about it? Can you contact social services?
they might be able to help you find out what you are entitled to if you leave home and how to do it.

Keep talking and asking for help until someone hears you, just because she is your mum does NOT make it OK
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