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Old 11-18-14, 07:15 PM   #31
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Also about caring fathers protecting women's value and virtue:

What??

That is enslavement. Women's value has nothing to do with how many partners they've had. Granted, when you're a child, you should be protected. But I'm 31 years old!! I shouldn't be hunted down.
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Old 11-18-14, 07:20 PM   #32
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And yes I'm one of the most active users on this site but:

-My mood is almost ALWAYS a POSITIVE ONE, including happy, cheerful, mellow, relaxed, angelic, and amazed

-I help people here a lot, especially Crystal Orb, Dimitri, Brandon, and Gene, but really anyone I can. I spend 25 pages on Crystal Orb trying to figure out how to get him to be happy. And I'm still trying because I want to help him.

When I help people, I'm careful with what I say. I appreciate it that you bothered to respond, thank you, really, but some of the things you said were downright insulting, like I'm "deeply disturbed" or that it's justified to be seen as a threat.

I would like you to provide evidence that gender is natural please.


This is the type of stuff that pisses me off about people. They assume you're a stupid feminist in denial or "the way it is", the "natural" differences between men and women, the different brains. They will insult and tear you down. But they will not provide one shred of evidence to prove their claim that gender is natural, and they will conflate gender with sex!!
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Old 11-19-14, 01:53 AM   #33
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Sensual))))))) )))))))))))))))))))))))

Calm down, please. Dont stress yourself.

People will always have different point of views, and clashes of different point of views will happen. Just please calm down.

You are good person.

I am just sorry that i didnt saw the reply earlier and reported it. :(

Just both, please be calm, no need to argue, we are all family here.
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Old 11-30-14, 08:48 PM   #34
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Also about caring fathers protecting women's value and virtue:

What??

That is enslavement. Women's value has nothing to do with how many partners they've had. Granted, when you're a child, you should be protected. But I'm 31 years old!! I shouldn't be hunted down.
Value depends on point of view. You might think you are valuable, but what if you are alone with that opinion? For someone who prefers a virtuous women, a promiscuous woman is not valuable. There are people who share your worldview, and for them you will be valuable, but the problem is, that self worth must be acquired by yourself. There is no external solution for internal insercurities.

This is not enslavement at all. As a child it is your parents' duty to protect you and your virtue. After you have grown up it is your choice, and you can't afford to waste your time on people, who hold you back.
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I will say it again: gender is a social construct.

You confuse SEX and GENDER. A sex change is about changing your SEX not your GENDER.

Sex - males and females; Gender - men and women.

Sex - XX vs XY chromosomes, penis/vagina, etc.

Gender is a social construct. How do I know this?:

There are societies where the double standard is reversed. For example, in Papua New Guinea, the men hate sex and the women try to seduce them. In Melanesia, the women sleep with ten or more men on their wedding night, at funerals, at feasts, and at other events. The Nadar women of Indonesia are promiscuous also and this isn't frowned upon.

As for other gender roles that are seen as natural byproducts of evolution: in Zululand, the men seek ambitious, resourceful women more than the women seek that in the men.

Posts like yours are the reason why I don't open up to people.
Different cultures have different values and standards. If you want to live a life similar to the people you mentioned, you can, but you can't expect people to just let you do it without giving you criticism. People always notice things that are not "normal" and if they feel threatened by it, they will find ways to justify their hatred for it. If you want to live a happy life, find people who share your lifestyle.

This is why multiculturalism simply doesnt work and never will.

Opening up to people is crucial, but I think what is more important is that if someone hurts you, when you show your vulnerability, that signals you, that you should not interact with that person again.
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Old 12-02-14, 04:07 AM   #36
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Thanks for your input. You made some good points.

I find it very annoying that people are threatened by that which is not normal.

But why is opening up to people crucial?
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Thanks for your input. You made some good points.

I find it very annoying that people are threatened by that which is not normal.

But why is opening up to people crucial?
Opening up is important, because when your vulnerability is revealed, you can always tell which people you should care about.

People, who exploit your vulnerability in any way, are bad people. Don't interact with them. If you do that, they can't hurt you again.
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Doesn't that opening up and exposing vulnerability thing cause you to go through life getting hurt or having normal people see you as a threat and get revenge like you mentioned earlier?
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Doesn't that opening up and exposing vulnerability thing cause you to go through life getting hurt or having normal people see you as a threat and get revenge like you mentioned earlier?
Getting hurt in inevitable. The point of the whole experience is to have standards. For example, I don't tolerate insults in a friendship or relationship. An insult is of purely malicious intent, and if someone does that to you, he is not your friend, thus wasting your time on him is foolish. Just stop giving him the attention.

If you want people to approve of you, you must either inspire them, or submit to them.
To submit, would be right, if the majority of people were of superior moral quality, which is not the case, thus it is not an option for me.
To inspire people, you must earn their respect, which is hard and long work. And never guaranteed to succeed.

If you want to be loved, you have to become a good person, someone who practices virtue, because only virtuous people can love. When two virtuous people get to know each other, their involuntary answer towards one another's virtuousness is respect, and respect is the foundation of true love. Note, that I'm speaking of love, not lust.
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Old 12-02-14, 07:15 PM   #40
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But doesn't that make it a type of impasse? If you study most people, the majority will follow sets of pre determined rules which will many times, if not all, reject anything that they perceive as a threat even if it is not one by its nature. Finding like minded individuals is hard enough and even then living our lives as we and not the norms dictate seem almost impossible.
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